Peom about a family

A family, like no one can see a family.

A family everyone can want to be.

Family love comes from above.

Family love is softer than  adove.

Family means a lot.

Life will never rot.

U will sometimes get caught.

A family loves you for you.

And you love them very much to.

A family means everything to you.

Without them you would’nt know what to do.

Are they saved or served

 Sometimes I got confused of the people whom they called as children of God, people whom they  called themselves as servants of God. Yesterday on ky to train station (cape town station), a met a lady who share a word of GOD with me. When we were about to approach train station we meet a lady who ask for fifty cents. I gave the lady the fifty cent, servant of GOD ask me why I gave that lady money. She explained to me how these people (street kids/ homeless) tend to think that being homeless is our problem. She told me , she will never give them anything because in the word of God there’s no scripture saying we must waste our money to people who do want to work for themselves.

I begin to think that not all people who are saved are the servants of GOD. People who are saved think about themselves. They always talk about GOD but not practice what was said in the bible. I am surrounded by people who are saved, family , friends and are the residence where I stayed. But I never saw them sacrificing on their things to those who are ineed. They always preach the word but they are not the good examples of those sorrounding them. I begin to think that maybe they are not saved but served.

No one is excellent but since you are preaching, you must practiceor experiment what you taught  other people.

Don’t let people doubt you be a good example!!!!

Our greatest strength is our greatest weakness

First thing come to my mind when I look at this topic was care, honesty, faithfull.Since I have heart for other people, I make sure I help them, be with them in time of need. Early this month I sacrifice my time helping my friend to go to Stock Road since she didn’t know the place. We woke up early as six o’ clock in the morning. It was cold, I was freezing but I promise to help acompany her to the traffic department. But people will always think you are an idiot if you always there for them. They will always have sum  with a total in their minds, without you knowing that.

Helping other people is my greatest strength and I figured it out that is my greatest weakness. I always make sure that I’m there for people a specially people whom I think is my friends. But they take advantage of my  kindheartedness.  I have seen people cares only about themselves but I don’t blame them anymore. Maybe they doing so because of the reaction and they way of people behave onto them when they figure out their greatest weakness.

Try a cliché

As life changes drastically you might sometimes wanted to change your behaviour. Wanted to fake other people’s principles forgetting who you are and where you from. You might get to trouble, with no resolutions because you don’t want to go back to your old principles. There are lots of cliché s in this world whether you have a cliché on money, music, fashion etc. those cliché s can change you to be someone else you never you will be. They can change to good or bad situation but the fact remain if you know who you are and what you want in life those cliché s can’t change you to bad situation.

Everyone his or her own prnciples, everyone has to figure out what are their motto. The facts lies on what are your principles? You have to be strong and know your grounds. Sometimes there will come obstacles where no one to defend you unto them. Whereby people will teased about you, your life, your future,  you have to stand firm and defend yourself. Married old men tend to take advantage of youth and teenagers because they know that their common cliché is money and car. They promise them all the world could be theirs, the promise to do everything they need and want. But at the they tend to play dice with their lives, they figure it out when they lay in bed waiting for their day to die that their principles and they motto should help them if they stick to it long time ago. Lfe is too short to leave with regrets!

 Our greatest cliché are those we put aside or abandoned!!!!

Feelings follow behaviour

They way you’ve been treated can lead to good or bad behaviour. If someone treat you like an idiot you will behave bad towards him or her. When I was at high school the was a boy at my class who was always late. Every teacher treated him badly, he was always sad in class even if he raised something in classno one  acknowledge him. One day the Geography teacher ask him to measure stream on the map. The teacher said who helped you? Because everyone treat him as a dump person. He got tired of his teacher’s treatment towards him. He didn’t respect any of his teachers because they don’t respect his feelings  too.

He decide to change school following year, but he wanted to teach them a lesson. His English teacher didn’t like him (as you now every teacher has his / her favourates). The day before school closed he bring a frog in class, before the class ends he ask his teacher “sir what’s your weaknessess? I don’t have one the taecher reply. This boys knows that his teacher was afraid of frogs.  The boy stand next to his teacher and say, sir you were the best teacher I ever hate in this school, but because of that I bring you a gift you will love ever and you will miss me about. The teacher smile. He then closed the door a take a frog out of his pocket and give it to his teacher.

The teacher was shocked and afraid to take the frog. Then the boy put it on his bag and said it was hard, painful for me to come to your class now I decide to leave this school because you always makes mea joke in class. The teacher apologise and beg him to take out the frog out of his bag. The boy replied “ I ask you sir what’s your weakness and you said you don’t have one, then as you are the man who have gut to hurt me all this year, have a gut to take out the frog out of your bag. The teacher tried shouting for help but unfortunately the door was locked. The boy ask him to turn his voice down, teacher bow before the boy asking for forgiveness and promise to do whatever he want.

“what I wanted from you sir is respect others so that they will respect you too”. Today our teacher’s whom are suppose to teacher us makes jokes of us infront of others. How are we gonna respect them? How are we going to behave unto them?

Feelings follow behaviour!!!!!!!

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot

I think this goes t the government, they keep on promising when voting time is. They urge us to vote them so that we can get all we want. Put your x on the ballot paper and watch after elections, after they won. They tend to forget about their promises, they deny what they said. I think this scenario should be given to all politicians and their disciplined organizations. Politicians can promise you all the world could be yours. They tend to promise black people who stayed at squatter camps big houses. How many times they voted for these filthy organizations. They are playing with people’s minds.

When it’s voting time they waste a lot of money with advertiments, billboards saying vote for us, winning people is to first give them those jobs. You will believe them when they say “our first priority is the demand of people”. All the claims are made by human being when they try to get people. They keep on promising but you will never see the delivery until next time. You will never saw them again doing door to door visit.

How many times do you usually saw our presidents visiting rural areas and poor people except during elections? It will be better for the government to practice what he promise before he talks a lot!!

Can’t let it go

The day I will never forget, no one can erase it on my mind, no one can take the pain out of my heart.  On this month, the women’s months, on the ninth of August 2010 when my niece was raped by a forty two years old man at Khayelitsha site B TR section. Man undermined the power of women, they tend to prove it on women’s day. But I can’t blame them because the justice of South Africa also weakens the power of women. How many times women abused on this month, South African law favors those who commit crime. All tests was done, the men was arrested for two weeks. He was granted a bail to come out of jail to rape again. Where can we bare our children, sisters and niece from these rapists?

I think GOD must come to give us solution. To discipline this corrupt government and his justice. It hurt when I looked at her, when she plays with his doll, especially when she named her dolls. I wonder why men are so stupid? I begin to wonder why they are so evil? I think they all deserve to die. I hate all men in this world.  In this country you can feel free to victimize, abuse, rape toddlers because the law will be on your side. They will grant you bail to come out to victimize them again and again.

When I saw him, when he greets me I become distressed, and wish if I could get a gun. I swear I will show him what witch craft eat.  He deserve to die. I hate the feeling I had but I can’t let it go!!

Fair become foul sometimes

Mid- June 2011 a nightmare during a day, when a couple recently married lost their six months old while they fall asleep during the day with their only beloved daughter. Sisikilelwe (we are blessed) was the name of the child, they called her this name after the doctor told her mom that she will never have babies. On the twenty seven of June the baby who slept between her parents disappears. They report the matter to the police, they even paste her picture everywhere asking everyone to help them searching their child.

After two weeks, the dead body of the baby was found near a stream covered with a new blanket. Eyes, tongue, vagina, thumbs were towed from the body and the body was moldy. This sad day, everyone was disgusting, devastated of the scene. Mzamo (father) swear that who did that to his child will bring the parts of his child and he shows them a lesson.

Mzamo go where he goes but what he said happen. After a week, on a Saturday afternoon his neighbor bring the parts of his daughter, asking for forgiveness. This man was like his brother, he always gives him food, clothes because he was not working and stays alone. He doesn’t have a family so he takes care of him because he also help him with cleaning the yard and do garden. A God believer, a humbly man had betrayed his soul brother by killing his baby for money. He sells the parts to the SANGOMA. Everyone ask a question why with no one answered it. 

Why SANGOMA are so foul? Why they are so evil?

A wedding cake in the middle of the road

It was a rainy Wednesday morning, my cousin was going to town. In villages when it is raining it’s rare to find a taxi because of wet road. She walks to the main road, on her way the was a car slowly after her. The driver hoots at her as a sign of greeting. He stops and offers her a lift. They both exchange numbers. After a couple of weeks that man called her for a date.

On their drive back home the man stops the car on the middle of nowhere and proposes marriage to Yondie (my cousin). He take the ring out of his jacket pocket, knee down, he puts his ring on her finger. As Africans   credence’s that you mustn’t chase away marriage, because you might invite bad luck in your future. She Consent the marriage of the stranger without knowing the consequences of what she was doing.She just does the ritual believing that God and her ancestors bring a husband for her. At first she was afraid on how she will live on that marriage, but at the end she enjoy being with her husband.

The marriage proposal was her wedding cake in the middle of the road. The marriage is still perfect.

Thank you for your sacrifice

I salute all women who fought and fell for me, those who were born as women and bore us. If you not resist the pass laws in 1956, those who sacrifice for us. I salute you comrades, not forgetting all women in South Africa.

This day is celebrated as a reminder of the contribution made by women to society. The achievements that have been made for women’s rights, and to acknowledge the difficulties and prejudices many women still face. I hope everyone will think of some of the many women in our life today, and show them some appreciation in honor of those women fought for our freedom. On the ninth of August 1956, twenty thousands of women marched to the Union Building in Pretoria to protest against a law requiring black women to carry passes.

I salute you Lilian Ngoyi, Helen Joseph, Albertina Sisulu and Sophia Williams – De Bruyn. I thank you for your sacrifice, you showed us the power of Women. You give us strength when we powerless. You showed us that without women there’s nothing on earth. A home without a woman is very cold, no love no peace.

 

Happy women’s day!!!!!